I am 21, living in Stroud, a small town where I have lived my whole life (bar a year in Bristol, 6 months in Weston-Super-Mare and a brief encounter with Cheltenham). I love music first and foremost, fashion, being social and a Chinese. I’ve tried lots of things, but like most 21 year olds (and most people in general) I still have no fucking idea what I’m going to do in my life. Here’s a load of advice that I should be taking myself, but am giving to you instead.Continue reading “How to plod through the ‘best years of your life’”
Most of my clothes either come from charity shops or hand-me-downs. I’ve taken each item of my outfit and found similar if not the same items from high-street stores for you to cop.
Waking up and choosing my outfit is one of my favourite parts of the day. In fact, it was probably what I fell asleep thinking about the night before. What look am I going for tomorrow? What haven’t I paired together yet? Orange and camo? Maybe.Continue reading “Outfit #1: Orange and Camo”
Like most people, I suffer with anxiety. I can’t drink coffee, too many cups of tea and definitely not energy drinks because of it. The caffeine sends me loopy.
I feel anxious every day. Wednesday was the constant and unbearable worry of a parking ticket, yesterday was what I was going to do for lunch and today? I can’t pinpoint what it is. I just am.Continue reading “Anxiety and my demons”
Easier said then done, granted.
I spent all my teenage years caring what people think, but now? I couldn’t give a f*ck. Here’s three things to remember before you have a meltdown about how you said ‘morning’ as you walked into work.Continue reading “3 ways to stop giving a f*ck what people think”
One of the hardest lessons I have ever learnt and am still in the process of learning, is how to take everyday as it comes.
When I was a kid it was much easier. My felt tip pen’s drying out, laying out my teddies to play teachers and whatever else kids think about – blissfully un-aware of the happenings around me. Then we run into death, love, partying, failure and suddenly are hit with reality, not everything is as simple as once seemed… Shit.Continue reading “Learning to take each day as it comes”
It’s hard to follow ‘body trends’ when you have an actual real-life body. Here’s a few things that make me want to throw my skinny little arms in the air and scream.Continue reading “What NOT to say to a skinny girl”
Quit. Leave the job you hate. End your relationship toxic relationship for the final time (and mean it). Stop reading the book you decided was shit three chapters ago. Quit people pleasing and saying yes because you ‘have to’. Focus on pleasing yourself for once. Don’t ‘just quit’, replace it with something else. Something unexplored.